2010 wrap up and a warm welcome to 2011

happy new year to my dear readers:) a bit late, but better then never right?

so today is the first day of 2011. 01.01.11. sounds nice too hor? hehehe. well let's not deviate. what happened in 2010? as we step into( or already stepped)into a brand new year, we tend to reflect back what happened in 2010 and the years before. and if we can make improvement from the past or continue what you have been doing before. all of us had ups and downs challenges, be it in work, relationships, family. but let us not forget we had a fair chance of happiness and joy. well at least it was fair for me, as i had my bad share and happy times.

2010.. started with a death(01.01.10)- uncle francis's brother passed away, suddenly at a family luncheon. shocking news.

01.01.10- that same night i went on my first date with ky at sungai nibong char kuey teow:) well obviously nothing ever happened. no chemistry, no nothing. both of us felt there wont be a second date( which we both discovered after dating) lol lol lol.

05.01.10- i was on leave. went to do my passport. first time flying out of the country. woootss. i still remember ky sent me 2 cups of coffee via mms early in morning.. and i was having a splitting headache. i woke up, saw mms, went back sleep. but telling him i have headache and need to pop pills. so did my passport, because i was flying to krabi for the first time. hahaha ok my first time out of country was hadyai which was in 2001, but we did group passport, and i wasn't excited at all. yeah its hadyai. who gets excited going there? anyways we went by bus then, so this krabi was my first time flying. i knowwww. jakun kan? but anyways yeah.

07.01.10- KY asked me( trying his luck) to go watch avatar. at first my friends were suppose to come down ti ,so i couldn't promise. and also i wasn't sure if i should give it a try. so i remembered checking with my sis and Chloe, if i should go. and both said yes, why not? even if things don't spark, just go as friend watch movie. so wat? right? so i went on my 2nd date with ky to go eat curry mee then avatar. that date we both felt the chemistry. i dunno why. but it was a nice feeling. obviously, no holding hands.etc... but it felt nice:). he picked me up, went for dinner, movie and sent me home. we kept in touch since.

13.01.10- 3rd date. we went to Georgetown cafe. just opened. he said lets try there. that night, i really felt that feeling. and i was bit sad, because just as i was getting to know him, i was going to krabi on 15th, but leaving for kl on 14th. andddd i still remember my mom's good friend who happens to be a bit kpc was sitting there. and omg, she heard everything and went home and report to my mom like i was hiding the fact that i went out with a guy. aduhhh. lucky mummy knew. and was extremely supportive:D. anyways date went really well, chat:)

14.01.10- left for kl. met Andrea, and on 15th before i left Malaysia. it was ky's first time saying he's already missing me. but the good thing was, sis had a Thai Sim, which i conveniently hogged thru out my stay in Thailand. ahahahahah. of course i paid the reloads.:D thru out my stay in krabi, i was constantly in touch with ky. it was when my sis and friend already suspected. :). and on the last night i was there, he called me, knowing how ex it was but called me and talked for a long time. that was when i knew, he's serious bout me:D

18.01.10- my first time attending National Sales Convention. good experience:). met up with friends, some i chat before never seen. lol. that same night, when ky called me and we already said good night, he sends me a msg, and i quote, " good night, sweet dreams, love ya. god bless=)". the first time he said he loves me. next day in NSC i was in cloud 9 dy:D.

21.01.10- ky came down with sun flowers, and officially held my hand for the first time and that's how it started:).

ok no more dates after this.. first time flying to krabi, then march KY asked me to go singapore meet his best buddies. so first time to Singapore.. beautiful country, went to sentosa for the first time, and his friends are great people. so not typical Singaporeans. lol. they r like ky's brothers and sisters but from different parents. it was a great trip.

then came April and may. may was ky's birthday. first birthday celebrated together. surprised him with chocolate cake( which was super hard to make) lol with church friends in al fresco.. then the next day we were driving down to penang. woots. 2nd holiday with KY:). then June July. nth much, oh June, uncle Francis passed away. sigh.

oh rewind, aunt Julia passed away on Feb 27th 2010. she had a great life. and it was time to return to the Lord. 3 deaths in 6 months.:(

i was confirmed as a public bank staff also in march BTW. got my bonus. but career wise, it wasn't going exactly well. because i was and still not happy with what i am doing.

then came all the weddings. a lot of people tied the knot this year. congratulations to ai ti and leong, Shirley and Alvin, yi jign's sis and hubby, ding and Clarissa, ying ci and tun, seng hooi and wife, li fern and hubby. may 2011 be a blessed year for all of you:).

2010, ky's aunty passed away too.:(.

through out, it was a good and bad year. we had bad things going on, but we did have nice memorable stuff:).

2011- as we start the year, have u reflect on Wat u want to do? or what u have done last years and want to do better? well if you havent, take a moment to do it, reflect back. for me, i have. lets put it in simple wordds where everyone knows, resolutions. what are your new year resolutions?

mine would be to SAVE MONEY AND AVOID WASTAGE. and to put my heart and soul in whatever i am doing. be it my career or relationship. go all the way out. i dunno whats my future like, but all i know, He will show me the way.

on a more serious matter, i want to be more Christ-like. i want to put everything behind and start anew. forget the failures and hurts, and let Him help me. forget the success and glory and let Him come into my life and help me. it's not an easy thing to do, but i want to try. i have and must try to control my temper, and when i am about to explode, i want to think, "what would Jesus do?" i believe if i put all my faith and trust in Him, He will guide me into what He wants me to do and be.

for all my readers who might or might not read, i hope all of you have a blessed great new year. and even if it isnt the best year, i pray and hope you will be able to go thru it come what may. let us all put what's behind behind and move in front. and enjoy and appreciate what we have. and whats in store for us..

so meanwhile 2010, with love:)