thank you and sorry

did you know the hardest words anyone can say are "thank you" and "sorry"?human beings (including myself)find these 2 word hard to say. as ee von once said, it's just "so..ri".2 syllabus. but why is it so hard to say?cz

1) our ego is too big to apologize
2) it's not our fault, so why say sorry?

for thank you, i don't know why people can just not say thank you. it doesn't affect your ego, does it?or does it make you look like a weaker person?i don't fall in this category. ok, sometimes i do too, sometimes i forget to say it, but once reminded, i will say thanx.

when you buy something for someone, or send someone something, or look up info for someone cz knowing he/she wont have it, you don't expect anything back from them. you don't expect the same thing sent back to you. no, all you ask for is a simple thank you said directly to you, not passed through others or worse, nothing at all. just MIA. is it so hard to pick up your phone, sms to say thanx?or email? or send a face book msg?whose asking you to call and say thank you?i know, not everyone is so free, but sms?what so hard?or even email, for those whose always sitting in front of their computers or laptops. or even msn msg. sometimes you wonder why people are so ungrateful?

i anti people when i wish them on their birthdays, and they don't even reply to say thanx. wtf?i really hate this kind of people. its your fucking birthday, people remembered to wish you, just fucking say thanx. what so hard?you don't tell me personally also i can tolerate, at least you did say thanx, but when you completely don't reply. i hate this!cz people make an effort to remember you, and the least you can do is just say thanx. will it cost you any money?only your sms money which is 15 cents. if you cant part with that, then i shouldn't even part with mine to wish you!ungrateful idiots!

all you ask for is just a little appreciation. is that so hard?

ok, on another scenario, i was expecting a thanx from you, just a simple thanx, but i did not see it anywhere, msn or sms, instead you replied on other things ,which made me wonder why couldn't you just say thanx?then when i asked you you said you said on msn, but ok, i did not get any msg, cz fucking msn always does this. messages that's supposed to be delivered, wont be delivered, and this is not the first time we get into arguments because of this. so many times, actually you or me did send that msg, but fucking fucking msn just loves being a bitch. or is it my connection?but anyhow, it is nobody's fault. so i am sorry for questioning you for not saying thanx, but i really did not get your msg when you said thanx. i swear!i did not get it. and i asked you so many times, and you did not even say thanx. it made it seem like i cared for nothing, cz you cant even say a simple word. but it's just a misunderstanding, not your fault, not mine either. i did not get your msg, and you prob did not know that "word" wasn't delivered. so i am sorry you had to hear this before you went for your presentation, but i just want to be appreciated. who doesn't?

that's why I've become quite selfish lately. i wanna give things to people, but before i really do, i actually think twice, cz give is one thing, but being appreciated is another thing. i do, i plan, i care, but to say thanx directly to me or even say thanx is so hard. so why even bother doing things for people who don't appreciate it?